Been awhile, right? We are all the same, nope. I suggest we don't assume. We ask, lovingly, kindly, how are you? Who are you, now? I also highly recommend we accept and understand if others don't want to answer those questions...or any questions, or have no answer. Some of us are very introverted, others are the opposite. I am both. I am blunt but sensitive. I am fine with who you are. Know that. Saying I don't want to talk about that will always be ok with me. But if I am awkward and say something inappropriately, just tell me. I will adjust and remember. So...who are you now?